My cousin is getting married, to a man who is like already a part of the family because they have been dating for so long. They want our family to be happy and all together on their big day, but I do not believe that could be possible in anyway. We do not have a happy family, but I truely believe no family can be. Everyone has their problems, whether others no about it or not. When I have a family… it will be the same. I will still have confusing relatives, family members my kids will never see, but in the little family going to live with me in my home, we will be happy. I wish my cousin the very best in her marriage. I want her to have kids very soon, and I do not want her to have any problems during the wedding even though people will be missing from their cousins, aunts, and uncles. It is understandable why most are not coming. What people expect is that everyone should go because they are related… but we have a lot different lives now… We do not have everyone who communicates with everyone anymore. This is the same on my other side… but we just have now accepted the fate and adapted without people. I am not going anywhere… but times are getting worse and it is harder to want to go to events where all everyone talks about is who is not there…